Written by: Michelle Topal, MSW, LCSW – LGBT Therapist & Licensed Clinical Social Worker   Separation and divorce can be a difficult, painful process for everyone involved. It represents significant change and loss, and triggers in most people, deep feelings of failure, lack of control, rejection and abandonment, and can cause anxiety and depression in […]

Written by: Michelle Topal, MSW, LCSW – LGBT Therapist & Licensed Clinical Social Worker I might have a gay child. How do I ask them, so I can tell them that I’m supportive? I have been working with lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered (LGBT) kids and the community for many years, and one thing I […]

Written by: Michelle Topal, LCSW- Psychotherapist in Raleigh & Durham NC The tasks of parents are endless and overwhelming and it’s understandable that you would welcome help wherever you could get it, including your child. And, well, you’ve managed to raise a very mature and responsible child, even one eager to be helpful and thriving […]

Written by:  Michelle Topal, MSW, LCSW – Licensed Clinical Social Worker Raleigh & Durham NC “No!” it is one of the first words kids learn. So, imagine your surprise when your child says it back to you in clear defiance, not cute mimicking like they did when they were toddlers. The response can naturally provoke […]